Handle guest access [1/2?] (#2872)

Needs https://github.com/matrix-org/sytest/pull/1315, as otherwise the
membership events aren't persisted yet when hitting `/state` after
kicking guest users.

Makes the following tests pass:
```
Guest users denied access over federation if guest access prohibited
Guest users are kicked from guest_access rooms on revocation of guest_access
Guest users are kicked from guest_access rooms on revocation of guest_access over federation
```

Todo (in a follow up PR):
- Restrict access to CS API Endpoints as per
https://spec.matrix.org/v1.4/client-server-api/#client-behaviour-14

Co-authored-by: kegsay <kegan@matrix.org>

roomserver/api/perform.go

@@ -78,6 +78,7 @@ const (
 type PerformJoinRequest struct {
 	RoomIDOrAlias string                         `json:"room_id_or_alias"`
 	UserID        string                         `json:"user_id"`
+	IsGuest       bool                           `json:"is_guest"`
 	Content       map[string]interface{}         `json:"content"`
 	ServerNames   []gomatrixserverlib.ServerName `json:"server_names"`
 	Unsigned      map[string]interface{}         `json:"unsigned"`